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Dating evening in Moscow

The question of finding your soulmate is relevant for many of us. Unfortunately, not all of us are lucky enough in life to immediately meet our destiny. Often, sometimes you have to be in an active search, over and over again looking closely at this or that person - is he the right one? It is especially difficult, of course, for shy people. They cannot ask a stranger on the street to get acquainted. Their embarrassment often takes precedence over the desire for family happiness and well-being. What should such people do? It's good that there is a way out. And this way out is a dating evening. This truly wonderful invention has helped quite a lot of people open up. But the result in such a situation is the only thing that matters, right? dating parties like this , there’s no time for shyness. Under such circumstances, there is no longer any point in worrying about being considered too intrusive or inappropriately decisive.

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Who's coming to the dating night?

Everyone present at this evening came here for exactly the same purpose as you. Therefore, no one will think badly of you. On the contrary, they will understand and support you. One of the delights of such express dating is that you find yourself in a circle of your own kind. So you can immediately relax and get ready for a pleasant evening. Today, similar events are held in almost all cities. Dating evenings in Moscow are no exception. Of course, residents of the capital, like any other people, have a chance to both have a pleasant time and meet their one and only destiny. Dating evenings are organized and held in Moscow by a variety of companies. They often differ in approach, methodology and style. But the essence, frankly speaking, remains the same. In other words, all of these organizations make an effort to create an atmosphere conducive to establishing a pleasant relationship with another person. The company LetNaDate has been successfully holding dating evenings in Moscow for several years, so feel free to leave a request and come. If you are interested in such speed dating parties in Moscow, then you can use our services, which is described in more detail on our website. We have already helped quite a lot of people meet their soulmate. Therefore, we definitely have something to be proud of. In no case do we intend to stop there, and therefore you, perhaps, will become the next lover whose personal happiness we were able to contribute to.

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Speed ​​dating: reviews

Reviews about speed dating:

Elena, 28 years old. I don’t live in the capital; we have such evenings quite rarely. I went because I recently broke up with my boyfriend and thought I’d find a new partner. But unfortunately, the couple did not work out. I can say that the idea is interesting, but the implementation is lame. I didn’t like it because it was not a cozy restaurant, but a club, where it was quite noisy, smoky and it was very hard to hear what your partner was saying. If such parties are held, I might go. But only if they are held not in a club, but in some quiet cafe.

Olga, 23 years old. I work in the capital, and such parties are not new here. They are held quite often, and in different clubs. This time I really liked it because the organizers did not invite a very large number of people. Only one girl sat at the table next to each man. Therefore, it was possible to talk about more intimate and heartfelt topics, without hiding anything, and not limiting ourselves to questions about work, income, and place of residence. I was lucky, the couple worked out, I met a wonderful young man. Unfortunately, we are not dating at the moment; I restored my relationship with my ex-boyfriend. But we continue to communicate as friends. I would advise going to such parties.

Svyatoslav, 35 years old. At my age, it’s not so easy to find a girlfriend, because I want a partner for a serious relationship, starting a family. I attended such a party and I will say that I was not very pleased, because in fact there were a lot of girls, but I liked few of them. Among the applicants there were a lot of young girls who were 20-25 years old, I would like to find a woman 30 years old. Unfortunately, this age category is not common at the party. There were only 2 girls who corresponded to this age. I didn't like them for objective reasons. One of them has a child, and I didn’t like the appearance of the second. I didn't choose anyone. But it’s a good idea, if they still organize speed dating in our small town, I’ll definitely go.


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Is it worth going on such dates? Undoubtedly, it’s worth going, because perhaps it’s on such a date that you’ll find your other half. This is a great way to have fun, because sometimes these dates can be very interesting. This will add variety to life and dull everyday life.

What do we know about speed dating evenings?

We have been organizing speed dating evenings for quite a long time, and therefore we have the necessary experience . We know what exactly you should pay attention to when organizing and conducting speed dating evenings. Perhaps this is why our dating evenings have such good results. By the way, in order to attend a dating evening in Moscow, you don’t have to be lonely and desperate and modest. On the contrary, you can throw this image out of your head once and for all. Many of the visitors to such events are cheerful and active middle-income people. They have already achieved something in life, they have friends and people dear to them, but all that is missing is a soul mate nearby. As for the age of the participants, it can be very different. Sometimes a date night brings together exclusively young people, sometimes – those whose age can be called more middle-aged. Everything depends on each specific evening, and therefore it is best to simply discuss this issue with the organizers in advance. Often such events are attended by simply people who strive for pleasant acquaintances and new experiences. They do not prepare themselves for the fact that tonight their life will change dramatically, but they also do not dismiss such a possibility. Their journey begins with a search for an answer to the question - where to go in Moscow in the evening. Therefore, sometimes it is not at all necessary to consider dating evenings as solely an opportunity to meet the love of your life, because they also provide many other opportunities. For example, with their help you can find a friend or simply meet a nice person. speed dating has become especially popular lately . You may have already heard about them. Perhaps some of you have seen dates of this format in foreign films. One way or another, they are quite popular and, I must say, for good reason. Such speed dating evenings are quite a fun and exciting way to spend time. They allow you not only to establish communication with other people, but also to have a lot of fun.

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What is Speed ​​Dating?

They can be organized both in nightclubs and in quieter, cozy restaurants. It all depends on the organizer. Nowadays they are mainly distributed in big cities and are held regularly in regional centers and capitals. This fashion has not yet reached small towns, perhaps because in the provinces there is a chance of meeting that person you already know due to the small population. The cost of such dates is quite low. It includes getting to know your partners directly, as well as a cup of tea, coffee or a simple snack and drink.

The essence of this event:

  • Small tables are set up close to each other, at which the girls sit, and the partners sit opposite. After a certain amount of time, approximately 3-7 minutes, one partner moves on.
  • That is, the girls continue to sit at their tables, and the men move forward. In this way, communication continues until everyone on the date has spoken to each other. The main difficulty is that it is quite difficult to like each other in such a short period of time.
  • People mostly look at appearance all the time, as a person speaks. It is difficult to find out details in such a short time. Although scientists have long proven that an opinion about a person is formed in about a few seconds.
  • Accordingly, such time will be quite enough to decide whether you like the person or not. But the main difficulty is that there may be several suitable, attractive partners on such dates.

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How are dating evenings held in Moscow?

By the way, their idea is so simple that it is almost brilliant. People sit in pairs. They have a certain amount of time to communicate, after which a signal is given and the couples are seated. Thus, men will have the opportunity to communicate during the evening with all the ladies present at the event. Women, accordingly, get to know all the gentlemen. A short period of time allocated for communication allows you not only to get to know each of those present, but also to reveal your best side to the maximum. After all, when you have only a few minutes to communicate, there is no time for long foreplay. And the mafia game will allow you to better feel the true character of a potential life partner. This kind of dating evening is extremely effective. Studies have shown that people only need a few minutes to evaluate another person. We instantly evaluate his appearance, take a closer look at his gestures and ability to carry himself. Sometimes it doesn’t matter at all what exactly this person manages to tell about himself. Much more important is how he speaks, how he carries himself, how confident he is. If you are interested in an evening of speed dating, reviews will help you finally see how successful and useful this event is. Other people who attended such dating evenings often share their thoughts and feelings with others. Thanks to such descriptions, you can easily conclude how good an idea it might be to attend such a speed dating evening. Read reviews

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Financial part of the business plan

Basic expenses for a dating club:

  • expenses for opening and maintaining a dating club website;
  • payment for internal communications and negotiations with clients;
  • payment for an advertising campaign: before the opening of a business project and during its existence;
  • paying for refreshments for clients;
  • payment for rent of premises (a cafe is rented for 2-3 hours for each event);
  • payment for the production and issue of sympathy cards;
  • payment of rent for a dating club office;
  • payment for the work time of event organizers, including processing of sympathy card data.

All costs are paid by clients. The amount is significant, but affordable. Clients perceive this fact normally, since no money is spared for the sake of personal happiness. Payment for services is taken based on the pricing policy of the region in which the dating club is located and the target audience, which is divided into subgroups:

  • younger – from 20 to 30 years old;
  • average – from 31 to 45 years;
  • eldest – from 46 to 60 and older years.

Thanks to age classification, it is easier to select couples for events. Over time, it will be possible to conduct events with each of the groups more often, sequentially one after another for 10 days or a month.

The number of pairs usually does not exceed 15, communication is allocated 1.5 hours. While communicating, potential brides and grooms get to know each other, ask about interests, tastes, positive and negative character traits. Taboos are personal questions regarding the place of work and place of residence of applicants.

The sympathy cards contain the names of all participants with one letter from the last name. After communicating with each of the event participants, both parties make notes that will help them later make their choice.

Take care of the sound design, keep statistics of successful acquaintances and develop the club - be interactive.

Dating evenings for over 30s

It should be noted that not only very young boys and girls go to speed dating evenings, but the main contingent of dating evenings in Moscow are those over 30 years old. Therefore, if you are over 30, then feel free to leave a request and come to our speed dating .
We can also say with responsibility that the likelihood of you meeting your soul mate is extremely high. At such evenings of quick acquaintances, there are well-established men and women, they really know what they want from life and they are really ready for a relationship morally and financially.

What kind of girls go on speed dates?

Here everything happens exactly the same as in life.

Types of girls:

  1. These are beauties who are looking for a sponsor. The questions will mostly be very standard, specific: how much do you earn, how much are you willing to spend, what is the most valuable gift you gave to your partner? Nothing new for this type of relationship. If you do not consider yourself as a wallet with money, then such girls are not your option.
  2. Pretty girls who do not pay much attention to their appearance do not emphasize their dignity. Sometimes you get the impression that, on the contrary, they put on robes and don’t put on makeup in order to somehow hide their natural beauty. Although they are actually very beautiful. This is an ideal option for family life, because girls are responsible, adequate, and are accustomed to using their minds, not their appearance.
  3. Girls for whom such dates are the last chance in life. They are not very beautiful, they themselves do not know what they want, but they are approaching age, they need to get married. Therefore, in principle, they practically do not care who they meet. Just to quickly tie the knot with someone.
  4. Young girls, aged 18-22, who are very easy-going and very easy to communicate with. They are ready to have fun, run to the club, and can do absolutely interesting and unusual things. Communicating with them is not at all boring. So if you are looking for entertainment, this is your option.

The best option for starting a family is girls of the second type. Those who are very nice, but somehow are in no hurry to emphasize external data, and put their inner world first. If you want to relax, get out of depression, and also saturate your life with new colors, then option 4 will undoubtedly suit you. That is, young girls who are quite extreme, active and crazy. There's never a dull moment with them.

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Dating evenings for those over 40

At dating nights for those over 40, it should be noted that there is an interesting imbalance of power. There are often more women than men at these evenings. If you are a man, then you, of course, have the choice to go to a younger speeddating and find a younger girl. But it is also interesting to note the fact that some visitors to dating evenings over 40 are not even looking for young girls, they are interested in their peers, so women will not be left without attention, although there will be a few more of them. Don't worry about this issue. Our experience says that you can find your person even from 5-7 men, although recently 15 - 20 come.

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Is it possible to find a husband or wife on speed dating?

The goal of such dates is simple - to choose several girls or men who might suit you. Ask, what is the saving of time if you still have to go on some dates again? Think about how much time you need to find the maximum number of profiles of girls that are interesting to you, and then communicate with them and have a certain number of dates? All this takes a huge amount of time.

Advantages:

  • With these types of dates, you have a choice. Of course, many of the girls may not suit you based on their appearance. But in real life and online, girls often correct photographs. At the same time, they look completely different in life. It’s not a fact that the beauty in the photo on a dating site is exactly the same in life. Very often, a girl who doesn’t really suit you in appearance may be interested in communication.
  • On the Internet, you would weed out such a young lady for a simple reason - you don’t like her appearance. But on quick dates, appearance fades into the background, because the girl is very interesting in a spiritual, emotional way, it’s very interesting and easy to communicate with her.
  • What is the probability of finding a mate this way? There are no exact statistics because it is not known how many people are ready to go on a second date after a couple matches. It is also unknown how many people exchanged phone numbers without choosing each other, but then called each other and possibly began a more serious relationship.
  • Undoubtedly, speed dating is a great way to find a mate and save time on endless searches on the Internet. Because here and now you can see a person’s face, feel how he feels, how he behaves and how he breathes, rather than feeling it when communicating online. Correspondence is nothing more than letters on a screen that do not convey the emotional color or intonation of the interlocutor.

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Dating dance evenings

This is a separate area of ​​dating evenings in Moscow.:-) Our company also holds similar evenings. We invite a professional dancer to attend them and give a master class. Don't be scared! In just 10 minutes you will understand the basic movements and be able to dance with ease. Another 10 minutes will pass and you will be able to do even interesting pirouettes. We can say with confidence that you will remember such an evening for a long time on the good side. And if from this dating evening you find your soulmate, then you will have something to talk about in the future. Come!

Dating club "Duet"

Dating evenings are held at the Duet dating club. The party organizers try to make every such evening unique and memorable.

The evenings are complemented by performances by creative groups, interesting people, presentations of books and films about love, competitions and various games, and in the second part of the evening there is a disco. There are 20-30 mini-dates per evening. At the same time, dating at such parties can be compared to a mobile dating club, where you can immediately see all the club members “live”.

What does a speed dating evening in Moscow give?

Again, a speed dating can bring more than just a meeting with your soulmate. Of course, this is the wonderful goal that everyone who is going to such a meeting sets for themselves. But you shouldn’t just focus on it. After all, in addition to the love of your life, at such an event you can meet a friend, a potential partner, or just an interesting person with whom you would be happy to continue your relationship. That's why you shouldn't neglect such interesting options. Thus, if next time you are thinking about what to do in the evening in Moscow, then take this option into consideration. It is a little unconventional, but no less interesting and useful for that. One way or another, this is much better than spending this evening alone with yourself. One way or another, additional pleasant communication with new interesting people has never harmed anyone. We wish you a pleasant stay and happy new acquaintances! Be loved!

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How to make a choice on a speed date?

Is it worth writing something down on these dates? Many people come to this kind of dates with notepads, pens, and write down some personal information about girls and men in order to make it easier to decide. In fact, this is all secondary, because if you really like a person, you will definitely remember him and make him stand out from the crowd.

All these fluctuations regarding appearance, beauty, education, earnings are secondary, because they have nothing to do with spirituality and sincerity. If at the very beginning of communication there is no spark, the person is uninteresting, you choose solely based on his work, income, wealth, appearance, then initially such an alliance is doomed to failure.

Many will ask why earnings are not important, as well as a person’s social status, if basically dating in 5 minutes positions itself as a way to find a partner for a serious relationship? The fact is that very often such a date turns into a real interview, at which a person does not feel particularly comfortable and uncomfortable. Accordingly, such a person will not want to communicate with you again, answering questions that put him in an awkward position or constrain him. Communication should be as relaxed as possible.

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